Thursday, March 26, 2015

Stop waiting

1. She's got too much to do and too much to think so she never sit around, waiting for you to call.
2. She's got a busy life and a lot of things is going on, so she has no time to even think solely about her dating life.
3. She's comfortable enough with herself and confident enough to know that if you like her, you will call her. And if she likes you enough, she'll call you too whenever she pleases.
4. She's also extremely aware that if it wasn't meant to be, she'll be happier with someone else.
5. Because she's not going to waste her energy on someone who does not bother and she's going to get over it real fast.
6. At the same time, she has no problem being upfront about who she is and what she wants so she will not waste her time playing games with you.
7. She's not looking for someone to support her financially. She's looking for someone who's going to support her emotionally and mentally.
8. And she's not afraid to share her own support and encouragement too.
9. She knows that she will make mistakes and will not be correct in everything she said but she does believe she has a right to her own opinions.
10. But don't worry, she's not against dating. She doesn't hate men. She loves dating. She enjoys romance. She wants to find someone to share her life with. She simply knows how to balance things out in order to keep herself feeling fulfilled and happy.


Sunday, February 15, 2015

maybe not

Why the secrecy? or maybe it is not a secret anymore. Tell you what, yesterday was the last night i actually cared about both of you. I do not know why do i bother so much. But hey, maybe i  just want to cherish the friendship! At least for all the good times we had. Be it the girl and you, the boy. I just feel pity for the girl, she must have been bitter to have to hide and really, you two are doing this to yourselves.

I am just a little disappointed why can't you two be open about it. It is not a bad thing and i'd certainly give you my best wishes. Sincerely! and for your information, I knew it since last year. It was only months after the tragedy happened. I knew it a long time my dear friends. I even saw the picture of you two. You see, all you guys are doing are frankly speaking, utterly childish. But! i know it is none of my business.

What i'm proposing is, I just wanna let you know I moved on, so you two should too. Don't be stucked in the future. Just some advice from at least once were your friend. But okay, i feel stupid enough to even care at all what you two do. Anyways, if you wanna hide, so be it. Please don't make any of these sounds more like a joke.

:) thank you and best wishes.